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Boyfriend is playing the victim card and blackmailing me to shut my mouth and stop claiming marriage. My boyfriend promised me he will marry I said no cuz I have no control over my anger bt he said he will manage then he ask for physical just cuz he will marry I said yes bt after physical he started to fight in anger I call his mom lair he Break up with saying word then I met his parents they said they will marry when we get job bt my dad died so I talk to him but he ignored and indirectly refused to marry.

When we broke up in anger I created fake id nd tell his frnds that he is gay he have those screen shot nd threats me if I contact him he will defame me just cuz he promised me he will marry I said yes to physical nd he breaks up with out reason so in anger I created fake id bt now he blackmail me that it was with consent nd if file case he will defame me his father is police. 

Relationship is of 1 yr and his age is 18 and the girl is 19. His parents saying he has mental issues and all he can’t marry u at the time of relationship he don’t have mental issues. Only time they marry he has that they are just playing the victim card. What should I do? I feel violated he obtained my consent by playing with my emotions but now he playing victim card I wanted to file case on him bt deu his father is police they trouble me lot nd defame how to win this case and put him behind bars.

Question from: Maharashtra

You have committed a crime under the Information and Technology Act by making a fake ID. When you have committed a crime against your boyfriend hence, he has the right to initiate legal proceedings against you. 

There is no blackmailing from your boyfriend. You have established a physical relationship because you have attained the age of majority. In this condition your boyfriend has not committed offence of rape. 

Disseminating on the social media that your boyfriend is a gay is a serious offenece. Disseminating false sexual orientation in the public domain is an offence of defamation. It is better for you to compromise and settle this issue beyond the court.

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